The Shame Spiral: Release Shame and Cultivate Healthy Attachment in Clients with Anxiety, Trauma, Depression and Relational Difficulties

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Debra Premashakti Alvis, PhD, is a licensed psychologist and private practitioner with over 30 years of clinical experience in supporting clients’ recovery from trauma, mood and relational concerns. Debra began working with parts of the self over three decades ago training extensively in Jungian oriented psychotherapy and contemplative approaches. She applied movement, mindfulness, and the expressive arts to explore parts of the self. She deepened her understanding of inner parts through multiple Internal Family Systems therapy educational trainings, combining her embodied contemplative approach with the IFS model. She finds that this integrative approach strengthens the self through facilitating the resolution of inner conflicts.

A seasoned international presenter and consultant, Dr. Alvis is a therapeutic yoga educator and mindfulness meditation teacher. She retired as faculty member from the University of Georgia where she developed and led the mind/body program. The program included a clinician training program integrating mindfulness, yoga and psychotherapy. A personal contemplative practice, research experience, and a deep understanding of Polyvagal Theory further enrich her presentations. She draws upon this unique background to provide effective, easily applicable skills designed for immediate integration into clinicians’ practices.
In addition to teaching, Dr. Alvis maintains a private practice and has more than 25 years of clinical experience in treating clients with a variety of conditions by mindfulness principles, body-oriented principles and traditional psychotherapeutic approaches. She also has an over 30-year personal contemplative practice.

 

Speaker Disclosures:
Financial: Debra Alvis maintains a private practice and receives a speaking honorarium from PSIvet, Ridgeview Institute, Twin Lakes Recovery Center, eCare, Essential Therapy Training, Alma, CEU Creations and Mountain Area Health Education Center. She is a paid consultant for Evergreen Certifications. Debra Alvis receives a speaking honorarium and recording royalties from PESI, Inc. She has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.
Non-financial: Debra Alvis is a member of the American Association of College Student Personnel, the Association for Contemplative Mind in Higher Education, the Association of Specialists in Group Work, the Athens Area Psychological Association, and the Georgia Psychological Association.

Objectives

1. Enhance client attunement with clinical strategies that replicate conditions for healthy attachment.
2. Characterize how shame complicates the treatment of trauma and specify how shame can be worked within traumatized clients.
3. Evaluate how shame can be addressed in your treatment plans with self-forgiveness interventions that can help facilitate recovery.
4. Communicate how anxiety generated by feelings of shame can be managed with breathing techniques that can be taught in-session.
5. Establish how depressed clients can manage shame generated negative emotions with imagery-based compassion exercises.
6. Analyze how mindfulness can be incorporated into therapy with shame-prone clients to reduce judgmental thoughts and reactivity.

Outline

Recognize Shame: Assessment Tools

• Shame vs. guilt
• Multicultural perspectives
• How addressing shame expedites treatment
• Reading the body – non-verbal signs of shame
• Interviewing questions for assessing shame in:
  • Key relationships and current patterns
  • Sexual, physical or verbal abuse, trauma, and neglect

Shame and Attachment Styles: Clinical Strategies to Cultivate Secure Attachment and Self-Compassion

• Characteristics of shaming environments
• Concerns of adults shamed in childhood
• Strategies to replicate conditions for healthy attachment
  • How to enhance presence, attunement, resonance and trust
  • Dignity in the telling – titrating shame exposure
• Somatic approaches to cultivate secure attachment
  • Developmental movements
  • Horizontal processing
• Self-compassion exercises
  • Interventions to address interpersonal difficulties
  • Befriend bodily sensations
  • Common humanity visualizations

Address Shame in Your Trauma Treatment Plans: Reclaim the Body from Shame with Breath and Movement

• How shame complicates trauma recovery
• Polyvagal theory – shame and the shutdown response
• Shame and victims of sexual assault – from victim to survivor
• Exercises to strengthen connections
  • Belongingness treasures
  • Divine child mandala
  • I am meditation – choosing visibility
• Interventions based in breath and movement
  • Heart mudra and breath – embracing resistance
  • The peaceful warrior

Effectively Intervene in the Downward Spiral of Shame, Anxiety and Depression:

Cognitive approaches that lean into ruminatory shame

• Put shame into perspective
• Dispute shame messages

Anxiety interventions for the shame-prone client

• Breath and movement strategies to stem panic
• How yoga addresses anxiety symptoms

Breakthrough shame fueled depression with:

• Techniques to bring shame to light
• Prosocial behaviour
• Imagery-based compassion exercises

The Devastating Impact of Shame in Relationships: Build, Maintain and Repair Couple and Family Relationships

• Unmask shame – anger and other disguises
• Engage partners in shame reparation
• Shame resiliency strategies – empathy, forgiveness and compassion
  • Forgiveness in practice – Releasing breath with mantra
  • Identify shame wounds and antidotes
  • Mindful RAIN for shame – regulate emotions and reduce judgmental thoughts

Shame Research, Limitations and Treatment Risks

Target Audience

• Counselors
• Social Workers
• Psychologists
• Case Managers
• Marriage & Family Therapists
• Chaplains/Clergy
• Other Mental Health Professionals