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Digital Seminar

Teaching Men Love: How to Challenge Traditional Masculinity’s Playbook

Faculty:
Terry Real, LICSW
Duration:
1 Hour 51 Minutes
Copyright:
06 Jan, 2021
Product Code:
NOS096147
Media Type:
Digital Seminar
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Description

The ability to feel love is not the same thing as being able to show and sustain it. Many men don’t know how to do things like be vulnerable, articulate emotional needs, or ask for help—all of which run counter to traditional masculinity’s playbook. This recording will focus on how to teach men to handle themselves in more loving ways, even if that sometimes requires a complete deconstruction and reconstruction of what it means to be a man. Learn how to: 

  • Help men disarm an upset partner with humility and generosity instead of a defensive argument 
  • Increase men’s willingness to cherish both themselves and their relationship with their partner 
  • Help men grow more of what they want from their partner through actively appreciating what they’re already getting 
  • Get therapeutic “buy-in” from even difficult men by enlisting their own best self-interest 

CPD

CPD
- PESI Australia, in collaboration with PESI in the USA, offers quality online continuing professional development events from the leaders in the field at a standard recognized by professional associations including psychology, social work, occupational therapy, alcohol and drug professionals, counselling and psychotherapy. On completion of the training, a Professional Development Certificate is issued after the individual has answered and submitted a quiz and course evaluation. This online program is worth 2 hours CPD for points calculation by your association.

Handouts

File type File name Number of pages
PDF Manual - Teaching Men Love (3.5 MB) 26 Pages Available after Purchase
Text Document Transcript (68.7 KB) 16 Pages Available after Purchase

Faculty

Terry Real, LICSW's Profile

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Private Practice

Terry Real, LICSW, New York Times bestselling author of Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship and founder of Relational Life Therapy (RLT), has spent over 30 years challenging the cultural forces that erode our capacity for authentic love. Known for his fierce compassion and groundbreaking work in men’s issues, Real brings both clinical wisdom and raw humanity to the deepest questions of how we live and love.


Speaker Disclosures:
Financial: Terrence Real is the founder of Relational Life Institute, maintains a private practice and has an employment relationship with Family Institute of Cambridge. He receives royalties as a published author. Terry Real receives a speaking honorarium, recording, and book royalties from Psychotherapy Networker and PESI, Inc. He has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.
Non-financial: Terrence Real has no relevant non-financial disclosures.

Objectives

  1. Evaluate how to treat men disarm an upset partner with humility and generosity instead of defensive argument.
  2. Determine ways in psychotherapy to increase men’s willingness to cherish both themselves and their relationship with their partner to improve well-being.
  3. Demonstrate how to help men grow more of what they want from their partner through actively appreciating what they’re already getting in the context of treatment.
  4. Apply 3 strategies for how to get therapeutic “buy in” from even difficult men by enlisting their own best self-interest.

Outline

  • Help men disarm an upset partner with humility and generosity instead of defensive argument 
    • The Art of Relational Ju-Jitsu 
    • Becoming a “generous gentleman 
  • Increase men’s willingness to cherish both themselves and their relationship with their partner 
    • Developing a cherishing relationship to oneself 
    • How to “do love” 
  • Help men grow more of what they want from their partner through actively appreciating what they’re already getting 
    • Shifting from complaint to request 
    • Positive feedback as relational strategy  
    • Thinking like a team 
  • Get therapeutic “buy in” from even difficult men by enlisting their own best self-interest 
    • The wisdom of a systemic perspective 
    • Forming an alliance with the “functional adult” part of the man 

Target Audience

  • Counselors
  • Social Workers
  • Psychologists
  • Psychotherapists
  • Therapists
  • Marriage & Family Therapists
  • Addiction Counselors
  • Case Managers
  • Physicians
  • Nurses
  • Other Mental Health Professionals

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