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Digital Seminar

Couples Therapy as a Treatment for Trauma


Faculty:
Ellyn Bader, PhD
Duration:
2 Hours
Copyright:
09 Oct, 2025
Product Code:
POS150444
Media Type:
Digital Seminar
Access:
Never expires.

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Description

Historically, couples therapy hasn’t been considered a treatment for trauma. Yet it can be a powerful modality for spurring growth, resolving painful patterns, and helping clients build a strong sense of self. If early developmental trauma occurred for one or both partners, the client may struggle with impulse control, vulnerability, and trust while also feeling like a victim within their relationship. And if trauma has occurred between the partners, it may be causing disillusionment that’s stalling relationship development. For this reason, it’s important to be able to recognize trauma in the context of couples therapy. In this workshop, you’ll learn to: 

  • Analyze the 5 different types of trauma 
  • Appraise the role of early developmental trauma in couples development 
  • Differentiate between when it’s best to treat trauma individually or as a couple 
  • Leverage couples therapy to help trauma survivors strengthen their sense of self 
  • Determine the role of shame in stalling couples development in therapy  

CPD

Planning Committee Disclosure - No relevant relationships

All members of the PESI, Inc. planning committee have provided disclosures of financial relationships with ineligible organizations and any relevant non-financial relationships prior to planning content for this activity. None of the committee members had relevant financial relationships with ineligible companies or other potentially biasing relationships to disclose to learners.  For speaker disclosures, please see the faculty biography.



CPD

PESI Australia, in collaboration with PESI in the USA, offers quality online continuing professional development events from the leaders in the field at a standard recognized by professional associations including psychology, social work, occupational therapy, alcohol and drug professionals, counselling and psychotherapy. On completion of the training, a Professional Development Certificate is issued after the individual has answered and submitted a quiz and course evaluation. This program is worth 2.0 hours CPD for points calculation by your association.



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Ellyn Bader, PhD's Profile

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The Couples Institute


Ellyn Bader, PhD, is in private practice and is co-director of The Couples Institute in Menlo Park, California. Over the past 25 years she has conducted professional training programs in couples therapy and has trained therapists throughout the United States as well as Europe, Asia, South America, and Australia. She is a past president of the International Transactional Analysis Association and a recipient of the Clark Vincent Award for an outstanding literary contribution to the field of marital therapy from the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists. Dr. Bader is frequently invited to speak at national and international conferences. She and her husband, Peter Pearson, PhD, coauthored the books, In Quest of the Mythical Mate: A Developmental Approach to Diagnosis and Treatment in Couples Therapy (Brunner/Mazel) and Tell Me No Lies: How to Face the Truth and Build an Honest Marriage (St. Martin’s Press).

Speaker Disclosures:
Financial: Ellyn Bader is the director of The Couples Institute and receives compensation as a consultant. She receives royalties as a published author. Ellyn Bader receives a speaking honorarium and recording royalties from PESI, Inc. She has no relevant financial relationships with ineligible organizations.
Non-financial: Ellyn Bader is a member of the American Psychological Association, the International Transactional Analysis Association, and the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists.


Additional Info

Access for Self-Study (Non-Interactive)

Access never expires for this product.


Objectives

  1. Analyze the 5 different types of trauma
  2. Appraise the role of early developmental trauma in couples development
  3. Utilize couples therapy to help trauma survivors develop a strong sense of self 
  4. Determine the role of shame in stalling couples development in therapy

Outline

Reframing Couples Therapy as Trauma Treatment 

  • Introduction to the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy 
  • Why couples therapy has been underutilized for trauma 
  • The opportunity for healing within relational dynamics 

Identifying Types of Trauma in Couples Work 

  • Overview of five types of trauma: 
    • Developmental trauma 
    • Interpersonal traumatic disillusionment 
    • Intergenerational 
    • Betrayal trauma 
    • Cultural/systemic trauma 
  • How each type presents in couple dynamics 

Developmental Trauma and the Adult Couple Relationship 

  • Impacts on trust, emotional regulation, and vulnerability 
  • How early trauma shapes present-day patterns 
  • Recognizing victim stances and coping defenses in each partner 

Trauma Between Partners 

  • Understanding betrayal, infidelity, and chronic relational injuries 
  • The role of disillusionment in stalled development 
  • Techniques for re-engagement and relational rebuilding 

Individual vs. Couple-Based Trauma Treatment 

  • Criteria for determining the appropriate setting for trauma work 
  • Coordinating parallel individual and couples treatment 

The Role of Shame in Stalled Development 

  • How shame operates beneath the surface of trauma responses 
  • Identifying shame-based coping in partners 

Restoring Connection Through Developmental Growth 

  • Strengthening the sense of self in the context of relationship 
  • Facilitating empathy and differentiation 
  • Using emotionally focused questions to deepen connection and growth 

Risks and Limitations 

  • Discussion of the accuracy and utility of the materials presented, research limitations, and the severe and common risks associated with the content of the program 

Target Audience

  • Counsellors
  • Marriage and Family Therapists
  • Social Workers
  • Physicians 
  • Psychologists
  • Addiction Counsellors

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